Regaining Control of a Broken Project: A 5 Steps Survival Guide

Five strategic moves that define project leadership when things are already going wrong. How smart project managers regain control by managing reality, not playing the hero.

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In project management, there is a moment that defines careers more than certifications or perfect plans.

You’re working on your tasks, doing fine, and then suddenly… it lands on your lap.

"We need you to take over this project."

Sounds simple, right? Except it’s not.

What they don’t tell you is that this project is already a mess.

Deadlines were missed. People disagree on what “done” even means. No one’s really in charge, but somehow it’s now your responsibility.

And because you’re a good professional, you feel it… That pressure to prove yourself. You want to show you can fix it. You want to be “that person” who turns it around.

But at the same time, that little voice in your head goes, “I have no idea what is going on here.”

Let me tell you right now: You don’t have to fix everything on day one. Actually, you shouldn’t even try.

Research from the Project Management Institute (PMI) consistently shows that 35% of projects fail to meet original business objectives, and over 50% exceed their initial timelines or budgets (PMI Pulse of the Profession, 2023).

Yet organizations are often reluctant to officially “restart” projects. Instead, they quietly reassign them to new leaders, hoping for a turnaround without the reputational cost of admitting the project was failing.

For junior or mid-level project managers, this situation is common. It is not a promotion. It is a test of leadership under difficult conditions.

This article outlines five essential moves for project managers stepping into projects they did not start.

These moves are applying core project management principles in a practical, people-centered way.

1. Stop Fixing. Start Understanding.

The first thing you’ll want to do is fix everything.

That’s natural. You’ve been asked to “take over” the project, so you feel this urgency to show results. To solve problems. To prove that you can handle it.

But let me be clear: if you jump straight into fixing mode, you’ll make things worse.

Why?

Because you don’t know the real problems yet.
You don’t have the full picture.
You might be seeing symptoms, not causes.

Imagine going to the doctor, describing some pain, and the doctor giving you medicine without asking any questions.

You’d call that irresponsible.

It’s the same with projects.

So, your first move is not to act. Your first move is to understand.

Take a step back. Observe. Ask questions. Listen more than you talk.

You need to know why this project is struggling. Is it scope creep? Lack of clear ownership? Too many cooks in the kitchen? Or maybe people are just tired and disengaged.

Spend your first days mapping this…

Who is involved?
What decisions have been made?
What are people really expecting from you?
And most importantly, what does “success” even mean for this project now?

Because sometimes, people keep running with an old goal that no longer makes sense.

This is not being passive. This is being smart. You’re not wasting time — you’re buying clarity. And clarity is what gives you control.

Remember, leadership is also about making sense of the chaos before you act.

And that’s exactly what you need to do first

2. Find Out Who Really Matters

Now that you’re taking the time to understand what’s going on, there’s something very important you need to realize: the official project plan will not tell you who really matters.

Sure, you’ll see names in the RACI matrix. You’ll get an org chart. You might even get a nice PowerPoint showing who’s “accountable” and who’s “responsible.”

But projects in the real world don’t work like a textbook.

There are always people behind the scenes who influence decisions, shape opinions, and let’s be honest, can block your progress without ever sending you an email.

If you don’t know who these people are, you’ll waste your time sending status updates to the wrong audience.

You’ll be “managing the project” on paper while the real power dynamics happen in private meetings you’re not even invited to.

So, your job now is simple: find out who really matters.

Talk to people. Ask open questions. Pay attention to who gets mentioned again and again.

One of my favorite tricks is to ask, “Who else should I be speaking to about this?” It’s such a simple question, but it reveals a lot. Names will come up.

You’ll start seeing patterns. Some people might not have an official role in the project, but their opinion moves things forward — or stops them dead.

Make yourself a little “influence map.”

Not fancy. Just a basic diagram showing who is connected to whom, who supports the project, who is skeptical, and who is sitting quietly but can cause trouble later.

This map will be more valuable than any Gantt chart.

Because if you want to regain control, you need to understand the people dynamics, not just the task list.

And believe me, no tool can do this part for you. This is where you earn your stripes as a project manager.

3. Ask Dumb Questions On Purpose

I know exactly how it feels. You are new to the project, but somehow everyone expects you to know everything already.

You join meetings, people mention decisions made “last quarter,” throw around internal terms like it’s a secret code, and you sit there, quietly thinking, “Am I supposed to know this?”

So, you do what most people do. You nod. You listen. You keep your questions to yourself because you are afraid of looking like you are not ready for this role.

That is a mistake!!!

When you pretend to understand things you actually do not, you are only creating problems for yourself. You will make wrong assumptions.

You will set the wrong priorities. Worst of all, you will lose valuable time just trying to “catch up” in silence.

Let me tell you something very simple: you are allowed to ask questions.

In fact, asking basic questions is one of the smartest things you can do right now. It shows you are serious about understanding, not just pretending. It shows you are not rushing to fix things blindly.

You might think, “But what if they think I’m inexperienced?”

Trust me, they already know you are new to this project.

What they will notice is your willingness to learn and get clarity before acting.

Ask questions like:

• “Can you explain why this project started and what the main goal is today?”

• “What are the biggest risks that people are worried about but not really talking about?”

• “Who are the people I should keep close to stay informed about critical updates?”

These are not “dumb” questions. They are the right questions that many people are too afraid to ask.

The key is to ask with genuine curiosity, not defensiveness. You are not exposing your ignorance. You are showing your commitment to doing this job well.

The earlier you do this, the faster you will build real understanding. And with understanding comes confidence.

It is much better to ask now than to pretend and stumble later.

4. Reset Expectations Before They Become a Problem

Many people forget to talk about this.

When you take over a project that is already late, confused, or going in too many directions, everyone still expects you to deliver everything as if nothing happened.

They know there are problems. But they hope you will solve it quickly, without changing the plan.

This happens in almost every project that needs a new manager.

I’ve been there…

If you are not careful, you will feel this pressure. You will feel like you need to say yes. You will want to show that you can handle it. But saying yes too early is dangerous.

You need to stop and ask a simple question: What is really possible now?

This is the moment to reset expectations. Not by blaming anyone. Not by saying “I cannot do this.” You are not making excuses. You are showing that you want to work in a smart and clear way.

You can say something like this: "Before we continue with new promises, I want to understand where we really are. My goal is to agree with you on what is possible now, in the short term, so we can make real progress."

This shows you are serious. It shows you are not ignoring the problems, but you also are not making promises you cannot keep.

If you skip this, people will continue to expect results that are no longer possible.

Then, you will be the person responsible when those expectations are not met, even if the problems started before you arrived.

Resetting expectations is not saying no. It is helping people see what is real now. That is also leadership.

5. Find One Visible, Achievable Win

When you are new to a project, you need to show progress.

Not because you want to impress people with big results right away, but because people need to feel that things are moving again.

This is why you should look for one small win.

Something visible. Something that is possible in a short time. Something that makes people say, “Okay, now we are getting somewhere.”

It could be as simple as solving a small but annoying blocker.
Maybe an approval that is stuck.
Maybe a confusion in the scope that no one had time to clear.
Maybe setting up a weekly sync meeting to improve communication.

The point is not to fix the entire project in one step. That is not realistic. The point is to build trust. To show that under your leadership, things are becoming clearer, faster, and more reliable.

Think of this first win as a signal.

A small signal that shows your way of working: calm, focused, and effective.

Once you get this first win, you can use it to create more space. More support. More confidence from the team and stakeholders.

Big results will come later. But it starts with small steps that people can see.

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Regaining Control Is Project Management at Its Core

When you inherit a project you did not start, your first task is not technical. It is not about tools, methods, or processes right away. Your first task is to regain control of the situation.

In project management language, what you are doing is:

• Reassessing the current state (status, scope, risks, stakeholders)

• Clarifying roles and responsibilities beyond what is on paper

• Aligning expectations with reality, using facts, not assumptions

• Rebuilding stakeholder engagement, starting with visible actions

• Deliver Quick Wins while re-establishing governance and communication routines, even in a simple way

These five moves are the foundation of professional project recovery. I used them, of course, always tailoring what is needed for different situations.

This is not a formal “project recovery plan” yet, but the first steps that give you the information and trust you need to stabilize the project.

In PMI terms, you are doing stakeholder management, scope control, risk assessment, and communication management. But in real life, it looks much simpler: Understand, connect, align, deliver something small, and only then start moving forward.

You did not create this mess. But from now on, how the project moves will depend on how you take control.

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